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The choice is hers? Dec. 6, 2013

 

You would think that after glaring at me for that long from midway up the stairs at the school that the next poem she might post would concern me or at least the situation she finds herself in.

I think this is particularly true of the second aspect since it comes at a point in her life where she has to decide what to do next.

In this, she returns to the unpredictability of change, using the metaphor of tides with their ebbs and flows to describe where she is, the coming and going, the ebb and flow, sent either by heaven or hell.

“What’s meant to be a pawn in all of this,” she wrote,

What does it mean to be one side of a coin, condemned to fate or a particular frame of mind, while the other side time marches on – this implying that her life may be subject to a coin toss, and not so much her ability to choose what she wants, and that she is constantly reflecting on this question – is she condemned to some will beyond her own, subject to whims of fate, or does she have the ability to steer her life in the direction she wants and needs to go.

She appears to come to the conclusion that those who have a strong enough will can turn the tide in the direction they want, and can resist becoming a pawn.

Good fortune or bad seems to come and go with the tides, she seems to tell herself, even if at times, life seems to be a toss of a coin with fade on one side while on the other is the struggle to control her own existence, a power she ponders whether she really has.

Has she “misspoke” in gauging her ability to transcend the dictates of fate?

At the same time, she knows that those who are strong enough to know their own mind also control their own destiny, able to control even the ebbs and flow of tides.

It seems clear that she sees herself as a pawn in a larger conflict over which she has no control. She cannot control her own destiny since her fate is tied to other people’s power.

Ironically – due to the changing nature of politics – her new boss (if that’s the right term to use) is someone she previously spied on when he was on the other side, perhaps inspiring a certain level of mistrust – similar to that of the Small Man and the Congressman.

Her status as a political insider seems to be dissipating like foam from outgoing waves on a beach.

This, of course, is complete speculation. But it is clear she is faced with questions about how to make choices, how to control her own destiny, when she seems insignificant in the larger game.

The event yesterday must have raised some serious concerns since many of those who attended are people she conspired against in the past, or in some cases have since switched sides and she is caught in the odd dilemma of having been against them in the past and now must somehow contend with the fact they are no longer her political enemies – people who may not trust her. How does she jump back? How does she find stability in this ever-changing world?

All this affects her tiny world which she previously thought of as a safe haven.

Two years ago, just after she got hired in our office, things looked so promising, all the pieces seemed to fit, her role predictable.

Now, she is basically on her own, and is unlikely to receive the rewards she once assumed were due her.

Again, the poem suggests that she will soon be moving on, seeking some less tainted battle field where her talents will be better appreciated.

Just who she is writing this poem to remains a mystery. My ego would like the poem to be directed at me, as if I am one of the few people who might understand it. But I suspect she has many other very intelligent people in her life who will get this message in a bottle, this desperate call for help, even though she expects nothing to come of it. She really is on her own and must rely on her own resources.

 


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