Friday, June 14, 2024

The big sleep Dec. 11, 2013

  

On first reading, the poem she posted yesterday seems defiant, a boast of strength.

But it is not.

The word “strong” repeated twice seems to mean “resistance,” or something to be overcome.

She implies that the struggle proved to be more difficult than she first expected.

Something is keeping her up at night, something she needs to work out, all that has happened to her, and she thinks about night and day. “processing” something she didn’t thing possible but has come about anyway.

This might mean what she has become, or a trap she has fallen into, and is unable to escape.

Sleep in this context might well mean death, although she speaks about how exhaustion is keeping her awake – no small irony – and how all she wants to do is rest or get peace, or perhaps rest in peace.

But her life does not give her that.

She is sharing this possibly with her former lover, using the word “we” a number of times to imply a unity that might have been.

The days are “so, so long,” and the nights even longer, because her thoughts are so “strong”, meaning powerful, disturbing, and can’t be ignored, and so strong that she spends days “processing” them.

Things have happened that “we” thought could never happen.

“And yet here we are,” she writes.

I am assuming (perhaps mistakenly) that the “we” means her and her lover, and the poem is written to him to explain the current situation, a perception supported by the next line when she uses the term “my love, though again, she may be referring to herself, “but sleep, just sleep, my love” and “we” are too tired.

She longs for days when she (they) can rest.

But she knows “we” aren’t meant for it.

This brings in the concept of fate and disillusionment, the dreams she (we) had which might have brought relief – meaning perhaps life would have been better if she had managed to achieve what she sought.

Then in an ironic phrase, she says the fight was “better,” longer, stronger than she (we) expected or knew.

“We sleep together,” she concludes, once more possibly alluding to the idea that the struggle doesn’t end until life does.

Again, dreams, schemes or wishes do not help or bring her relief, and she seems to be caught up in a struggle to survive, her will to live stronger than her need to seek eternal sleep, and when her time comes the two (her and the man she loves, I suppose) will sleep together.

The fact that her will to live is so strong seems to surprise her, even when she clearly aches to give in and give up. She clearly feels trapped and doesn’t know what to do about it.


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