Monday, October 14, 2024

Back to the big city april 5 2014

 

yesterday Joe -- my replacement in the peninsula City--  complained about the owner forcing him to slant stories in favor of the incumbent mayor, one more piece of evidence of corruption we can't do anything about

(and possibly what our poet meant when she talked about ethical and other issues in our publications0

GA the hometown blogger has asked for emails between our owner and James and no doubt this has prompted James to react, perhaps to use our former temporary boss to ferrit out what I know, suggesting once more a relationship between the two that may have roots back to 2012 when our former temporary loss sent the hometown reporter to seek out and destroy GA.

the other uncomfortable thing in all this is the close ties between my former temporary boss and Tim Carroll who was an operator for James on the paper several years ago may will be, the Brain trust who sought to take over the paper last year and the year before.

Our former temporary boss lacks real authority on paper, plays out the role of an important person he wishes he was. the more contact I have with him the more I realize just how much he imposes on other people and in many ways resembles our poet in that sense of desperation for power

it is easy to see how our poet managed to manipulate him although from what our poet most recently posted. she either has taken a step back from it all trying to rebuild her reputation in order to start over fresh or has already found some new venue and has little or minimum use for those whom she played in the past.

 but even in the post she posted yesterday, the poet retains the hunger for wealth and privilege that continues to keep her on the path to self destruction

she can't get the idea of being invisible out of her head or her blood even when she allegedly in the midst of reform.

her current effort to recover from her eating disorder is not about to fix this, so ultimately she will come back to the same place again regardless of how much therapy she gets because she is trying to fix the symptom not the disease

Since she has a tendency to pick losers like our former temporary boss rather than people who can actually give her access to power, she can't help but repeat what she has done especially as she ages and her ability to compete with younger women grows less

it clear she is nostalgic for that time 10 years ago when she assumed she was on the road to success.

 she had just met her soon to be husband and had started to record music she believed would bring her the fame and fortune she has craved since a kid

In her essay, she said she circled the block twice the block she lived two blocks down from 10 years ago in New York, near to the outpatient clinic she is on her way to.

It was a block she walked up and down several times a day to get to and from work and where she bought diet pills from

then she took a deep breath and walked through the lobby doors onto outpatient clinic on Wednesday

in an elevator with a huge mirror -- for some reason the elevator mirrors have always been something she avoided and if she had accidentally caught herself in them they've been most certainly made her promise not to eat anything that day except there she was on her way to eat again she cried the whole way

then she waited to see the therapist and wondered why she was there. she had spent two hours dressing that morning aiming not to look fat and to look spiffy enough to be in Manhattan

she felt once again unworthy. not sick enough, simply ridiculous, awkward, believing she should be spending her time looking for a damn job whileshe ate that damn sandwich and got on with her damn life

then fighting tremors sweats and tears she opened her eyes to see a group of women fighting the same fight she was and gradually she came to think this is just what she needed.

when she feared it being hard, she feared her actual life being harder and she feared her life without it because she needed help and this was part of the process

how honest all this is I can't tell since the poet writes this intentionally so that one of her handlers will read it( as well as those beyond her handlers family, friends and others who she is attempting to convince that she really is on the road to recovery and this is a brand new and more trustworthy poet.)

she may even see herself leaping into this as she leapsinto all her past projects, only to leap out when she is confronted by how hard it actually is

she may be manipulating but the tone of voice in these pieces seems less swarmy than pieces she described to manipulate with in the past with the exception of a few exaggerated essays

these essays seem moderate and realistic to suggest she is sincere on some level and if she is deluded, it may be simply be in the misconception that if she cures her eating disorder she will be on the road to a better life

this essay also gives clue to more serious issue of her need to be on the inside track. a player someone who can look out at the masses she has risen above

Going back to Manhattan stirred up all the old feeling , how good things felt there, the rhythm and life of the city she once fled from but continued to love,the pace around her outpaces the clamor in her head and she feels a little if just a teensy bit more sane, safer in these anonymous crowds than in a suburban mall or even int a crowded room than in a restaurant, moving and walking where they are all just moving and walking, pulsing units on their way to and from places, functioning as a larger organism rather than an excruciating group of individuallitic pathologies and psychodramas, and it is soothing her until she gets there and suddenly she feels exposed again.

our poet freaked out at first when her therapist said she will have to be in the program for a month. which is partially hospitalized program in which a patient continues to reside at home but commutes to the treatment center up to 7 days a week and usually involve group therapy, individual therapy and general assessments

why should she freak out seems odd in that she already knew when she left the clinic that she would need this kind of therapy, perhaps she assumed it would take less time as she had when she went to the clinic first, perhaps this is what she assumed they wanted her to hear and she has to justify her change of heart as she went to the next bit

she took a big breath and told herself it's going to be okay she can do it hard or not.

she has been doing hard all her life and she's going to get a lot more work done. she liked the idea when the woman told her this was going to change her life for the better. no one, the poet claims, ever told her that before

 the poet had told the woman she did not believe happiness was in her future perhaps it will be


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