Wednesday, October 18, 2023

The past is past July 15, 2013

 



Yesterday’s look at her surrealist story still has my head spinning, because it is a far darker piece than anything I’ve read by her, and makes me wonder if there are other pieces, I don’t have access to that are as brilliant and dark as that.

I keep going back to look at it because it is so rich in metaphor.

While I assumed it had to do with her life and condition at the time she wrote it, the piece is clearly fiction, and it is always a mistake to read too much into fictional accounts.

But the fiction comes at a time when she is transitioning, out of one shell and in search of another.
The images are so intense that is it impossible not to relate them to characters in her life, or to feel that she is expressing her frustration with the past, disappointment (and betrayal) in the present, with a vague hope for the future.

The power of the writing, the descriptions of the two men that are part of this character’s life Past and Present are potent elements in some psychological drama that has to have some basis in fact, her perception of the past – as an individual person or a collective, filled with all the disgust as well as pity as she can provide. It says a lot about her character, someone who gets trapped in a relationship because she is fundamentally good, and after some fashion, despite her disgust at the rotting conditions, still maintains a level of empathy or pity.

This says a lot about her character later, and possibly explains a lot about how troubled she is by life that keeps waking her up in the early morning hours.

The fiction, of course, is a kind of American Horror Story, that presents us with a dream for the past and then creates a character so utterly normal as to be boring, only to suggest that maybe the dream is coming true after all.

As with the story she wrote about cheating, she has a remarkable insight into the male mind, even a decrepit one such as the past.

The once-blonde boy on the motorcycle presents a scenario utterly sensual without needing to describe the lovemaking, although you can feel the heat of it, the passion, especially when compared to the heat of decay she presents with the past.

As pointed out yesterday, there is something very much Salvador Dali in this work, especially regarding the impact of heat, and the sudden dream-like shifts, the use of the hummingbird and the green rose, and the gradual evolution of these images and symbols – the hummingbird that sucks all the green out of the rose, who later appears as the boy in flight, this almost-salvation that turns sour when the past stares out at her in the reflection of the boy’s motorcycle helmet.

Even the helmet is a major symbol, her desperate need for independence, even from the boy with whom she has shared a powerful passionate moment.

The feeling is that the boy will eventually evolve into a trap exactly like the past, and she needs to be free of both of them, even if she takes pleasure from the boy at the moment. He is not the future; he is turning into the past.

The symbolism implied by the present part of this story suggests that regardless of how humdrum a life she adopts, the character is destined to live out the dream – or nightmare, and perhaps adopting a so-called normal life is not the solution.

Despite being fictional, the story comes at a time when she is scrambling to find a new path out of a bad situation. She is writing food reviews for free, possibly inspired by the fact that she got to meet briefly at a book signing her all time hero. She (meaning the poet) is applying for even the most medial jobs just to be able to maintain the minimal life style she enjoys – it is not completely clear where the character in the past sections lives or sleeps, although from the past’s remarks, it suggests they are estranged even if living together, and so her need to make love to the boy is all the more urgent, and for the past, an easy way (he thinks) to manipulate her. She never anticipates the rage this inspires and how it eventually leads to his downfall.

The story allows glimpses of the real poet as she slips out of one shell briefly before adopting another, perhaps less intentionally revealing that even the poet knows, how reluctant she is to give up what she has for what she might need or want, and – at least in the past – her willingness to suffer through a terrible situation, perhaps foolishly hoping it will somehow get better when it is clearly already hopeless.

She once told me she never cheated on anyone; but many men have cheated with their significant others with her.

I don’t completely believe this statement; I do believe that she may have been driven into other men’s (and sometimes women’s arms) because of the unbearable conditions of an existing relationship – such as depicted in this fiction.

Also, although married at the time, she was a prominent figure in a musical act that toured the world, and from my experience in the music industry, such a position made short time affairs inevitable. This was brought home hard to me during the end days of our brief encounter, when I saw an off off Broadway play in New York depicting bored housewives who put together their own garage band, and ultimately became popular – with one of the songs they sang as part of this musical called “You can’t fuck them all,” making it clear just how addictive the life style can become.

She no doubt had the same issues, even though her husband was a member of the band, and perhaps he like the past in the story allowed her to engage in these short term affairs in order to keep their marriage in tact – pure speculation on my part, though as her later poems indicated, she is a very physical and sensual being, and finds it very difficult to say no to someone who constantly hits on her, as no doubt many men and women did during her time with the band.

Again, we harken back to that old lady who gobbled up boys and girls and helped guide her to a new way of life – perhaps helping her in the same ways her friends did earlier when she gave up sex for a time after a breakup from a boyfriend.

The idea of independence runs through this whole story, and her need to know things – the past complaining about her constantly asking questions.

While there were at least seven parts to the past portion of the story, there was only one part to the present or normal portion, even though she labeled it as part one – after which she may have felt no more need to continue it since she had already found a new shell to inhabit.

What becomes clear from the story, however, is that she felt trapped in a life, partly because of guilt over the thought of leaving the helpless past. But more importantly, that life with the past was a living hell, and destined to destroy her.

The blonde haired boy on the motorcycle symbolizes that vibrant part of herself, the sensuality that gets lost in the dust and decay of the past but must be allowed to thrive if to avoid the green turning to gray as the rose did.

The past was sucking her dry and condemning her to a life of misery, and the boy became both a reprieve from that life, as well as a reminder of who she had been prior to becoming trapped in the past. She needed to go with the boy, to make love with him, even though she came to realize he would eventually turn into the past as well, and that the only answer for her was to go her own way, do things for herself (as symbolized by her putting on the helmet), although the story also suggests, she was never meant to live “a normal life,” nor should she – and while she might wind up alone in the end, it is better than being trapped in decay the way she was in the past.

Looking back at this story from several of her more provocative poems such as the fair unfair and trickle up, it becomes understandable that she needs to keep on keeping on, or rot on the vine.

 

 

 

 

 

 



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